I’ve written at length about my name and the story behind it (See What’s My Name). You would think with a name like Themi I would be hard to forget. Yet for as long as I can remember one of my insecurities is that people won’t remember me. My memory is uncanny. I joke with friends never to tell me anything they want me to forget. One friend even refers to my memory as a steel trap. But my memory is selective. I’m not great with dates but I’m decent with names and I rarely fo