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Themi Alexandra
"The only baggage you can bring is all that you can't leave behind" U2
I love to write. I wanted somewhere to share my writing and some pictures too. Simple as.




"Assassin" or 3 Friendship Lessons to Bring Out Your Inner Child
Every trip deserves the perfect playlist. For me it doesn’t get better than having a travel soundtrack. It’s like having familiar friends in my pocket to keep me company amidst my adventures. As the self-proclaimed “world’s biggest U2 fan” it was a great excuse to compile my favorites for my first international solo trip. And so the tradition began with Ireland back in 2013. Not all his movies have aged well but if John Hughes did one thing spectacularly well it was marry a m
Themi Alexandra
7 days ago8 min read


Bohemian Rhapsody...or Biking in the Netherlands with the Spirit of Freddie Mercury
Biking makes me feel most myself and when traveling it makes me feel at home wherever I am. One of my favorite pieces I’ve written for this blog is about how I fell in love with biking and the experience of biking in eight of the ten countries I lived in while on Remote Year (see A Sort of Homecoming ). If you told me back in 2018 on Remote Year that one day I would go on a biking trip with Mary, I wouldn't have believed you! Mary is Ohana: one of my constant companions th
Themi Alexandra
Jan 2710 min read


Being Funny in a Foreign Language
I am a self-professed word nerd. I love words in all their forms: spoken, written, sung. It’s one of the reasons I’m such a reader and rabid music fan. I love their ability to take me places and make me feel deeper than I already do. It’s also why I love languages. I love learning words in other languages, like calcetines (my favorite word to say in Spanish) or dentifricio (my favorite word to say in Italian) and learning how mundane things such as socks and toothpaste sound
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Jan 279 min read


Coming Home: Feeling Like Locals in Alkmaar
So the lady at the gate wasn’t wrong…Amsterdam was the coziest city in the world. Its reign lasted two whole days. After our brief stay in Amsterdam, Mary and I headed to the newly crowned coziest city I have ever visited - Alkmaar - 25 miles northwest of Amsterdam, where we stayed for the remainder of our time in the Netherlands. Alkmaar made me feel like I was in “Belle,” the opening number from Beauty and the Beast, in the best way! I felt like I was in a storybook, surro
Themi Alexandra
Jan 275 min read


Amsterdam: The Coziest City in the World?
I remember thinking “this place better be worth the wait” as my flight delay hit five hours and counting and its third gate change from Chicago to Amsterdam. Just as the thought crossed my mind, I overheard someone near me say enthusiastically, “Amsterdam is the coziest city in the world!” I live for cozy vibes as a natural born homebody and a big fan of wintering. Her words were the injection my weary body needed to stay awake. A few hours later we finally took flight and he
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Jan 273 min read


Cover Girl: Why The Fab Over 40 Contest Matters to Me
MY DISABILITY JOURNEY Here’s the TLDR on my disability story. I was born with cerebral palsy and came to find out my diagnosis at 28 by happenstance. I spent the next decade working through all the feelings that came with that revelation (anger, sadness, and betrayal just to name a few) and the label of being disabled. To be clear, I always knew I was different but I didn’t have a name for my different way of walking and moving through the world, literally. Disabled is a word
Themi Alexandra
Nov 25, 202515 min read


Time Waits for No One: Seeing Istanbul and More Through My Parents Eyes
My last post was all about my experience with chronic pain ( Humble Quest ). What I didn’t mention is how the unpredictability of my pain kept me from my favorite pastime, travel. Travel is a way of life because it gives me life. Every time I go somewhere it restores my spirit. See any Remote Year post for evidence. I stopped traveling when I lost trust in my body. Or more specifically when my right leg started spontaneously dropping out on me. I often travel solo so it simp
Themi Alexandra
Jun 26, 202512 min read


Humble Quest: My Experience With Chronic Pain And My Search For Answers
A doctor recently told me that he admired my grit as he walked out the door and left me to change. On the one hand an incredible...
Themi Alexandra
May 20, 202512 min read


Big Time Sensuality: Lost in my Senses at the Blue Lagoon
Some people set resolutions each year. For the last few years I have focused on a word of the year (self proclaimed word nerd over...
Themi Alexandra
May 5, 20247 min read
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